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Hether L. (Graeff) Quillman

June 11, 1969 — September 9, 2021


Hether L. (Graeff) Quillman, 52, of Fleetwood, passed away on September 9, 2021 at St. Joseph's Hospital.

Born on June 11, 1969 in Fort Wayne, IN., she was a daughter of David and Linda (Lorke) Graeff. Hether was a 1987 graduate of Fleetwood High School and went on to graduate from Kutztown University in 1992 earning her Bachelor’s Degree in Business.  Hether was the wife of Franklin "Frank" C. Quillman, Jr., with whom she shared 29 years of marriage.

Hether was an active member of her community and was involved with numerous Boards including Maidencreek Parks and Rec., Richmond PTA and the Berks County Republican Committee. She also enjoyed baking and was an avid reader.

In addition to her parents and husband, Franklin, Hether is survived by her children, Tyler Quillman, husband of Kaley and Katelyn Quillman and one granddaughter, Olyvia Quillman. Also surviving are her siblings, Rebecca Miller, wife of Scott, Matthew Graeff; Nieces, Kirsten and Kara Graeff; Nephew, Ethan Miller and her Father-In-Law, Frank C. Quillman, Sr.

She was preceded in death by her mother-in-law, Mary D. Quillman.

A Graveside Service will be held Wednesday, September 22, 2021 at Maidencreek Cemetery, Fleetwood, at 11:00 am.

In lieu of flowers, memorial donations in Hether's Name may be made to a charity of your choice.

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Milkins Trymbiski Funeral Home in entrusted with arrangements.

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Graveside Service

Wednesday, September 22, 2021

Starts at 11:00 am (Eastern time)

Maidencreek Church Cemetery

261 Main Street, Blandon, PA 19510

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